Life's Adventure

Two days have gone by and life shower another year upon my birth. It’s time to bring a whole new person to the front and center of life adventure. It’s time to restart by breaking all the rules of engaging myself to all kinds of adventures. I am eager, wiser and ready to face the journey.

Let’s get this life adventure started it may not wait any longer. Although this adventure is best shared with someone you understand. Understanding is a process that defines what you want and identifying that someone take time.

In life there are three words that are commonly associate with this process. They are IF, AND, BUT at some point these three words will spark life into your adventure. It like learning to walk and talk all over again, (this is the early stage)

But yet you tend to shake and your words get tied up in knots as you speak to her.

Then all at once life throw a choice in front of you and require you to make a decision. If you can not introduce yourself or express yourself in one complete sentence to this person your life adventure ends. But your goal should not end because you got nervous around the first young lady that you meet.

Preparing for another challenge spark another reason to get up and face the journey of introducing yourself to someone else. Face to face seem not to work but the experience of life takes you to the step of another adventure.

The online dating program requires you to fill out a profile and submit a photo of yourself today. What do you say and what you say must have a true meaning to your life’s adventure. It must identify you from everyone else, giving you a better chance to find that someone. So you start by telling about the journey towards establishing a friendly relationship at first. Then you share what you think you have in common. You finish and your profile is been broadcast all over the super highway. Pictures and profile of each individual are at your fingertips. You read and read more about those you like and then narrow it down to one or two.

As you gather your thoughts, you want to say. Keeping it simple with just a few words or a complete sentence so they will know you share something in common. A day or two later you get a reply back. But you are not as nervous like before. You reply and she replies back, your emails seem to get longer and longer reaching into the midnight hours. We both have so much to share and together we have reach out to each other by relating a need to see each other. But in all the mist of getting to know one another a problem creep up like the Titanic being sunk when an iceberg hit it and it took on water. Whether it was the tears or complete silence that held the air for a minute or two. Something said or something mention lead our communication to be disconnected. It’s an awful way to end our life‘s adventure. What can be done, to revive our conservation? Can we, back track and find the problem before we terminate our friendship?

Just like it takes two to tango, it took both parties to listens to the problem create in our communication. Was it the truth and nothing be the truth when it said to each other? Communication is acknowledgement that both parties heard and receive what each one wanted to be communicated.

It is important that when there is a breakdown in communication that the two parties involve don’t shutdown the values of communication. Learn to adjust, so that life’s adventure will continue and your friend will remain in your friendship longer (Trust him and trust her).

This flight started as friends and lead to a unique relationship. Communicate is the spark that motives. Being friends lead to friendship, that drove the relationship.

Understanding was the fuel that made the long distance short and to the point.

Life is an adventure and best shared with someone you understand.