Stop The Train:

Stop that Train:

Be prepared in a relationship to stop that train in the name of love. It takes courage to examine your thoughts, examine your emotion, examine who you are with and examine where to go from here.

Somewhere along the time line in your relationship you need to stop and think about your relationship and what’s going on.

Stopping at this point will not make you popular but is necessary to move on. Sharing your feelings and your thoughts about the relationship will motive you to continue to the fullness that you share with each other.

There maybe more than once or twice it will become important that you make stoppage to clear up something. When you do here are some signals that you will be faced with.

WORDS: To have a good relationship start by remembering his or her name. Learn to pronoun it correctly. (Never call him or her by another name or you will find that the bell will be pull to stop and get off ahead of schedule).

DATES: Remember important dates (Such as the first time you both met, your first dinner, or your first dance, the first time you both kiss.) What may not be important to you, will be important to the other person.

FORGETTING: Many of the above things will get you in trouble! When you start forgetting things that is important! You will cause the train to begin to make every stop along the way, stream will build up and the pressure is on so tight that you are headed for a train wreck. Then, when you are derailing jealous, angriness, upset with you will become an issue. Name calling, silence for days will intervene. It maybe something that you said, overlooked or not aware of. Whatever, it maybe your relationship will suffer.

At that point and time in your relationship, if you truly feel the love and caring for that friendship, relationship that you have for each other. Be prepared to step up and say that you are sorry. Work on these issues together. You will find that a derail train can be place back on the tracks, while continuing looking for greater enjoyment in the name of LOVE.

It’s you secret admirer:

Secret Admirer:

The moment you begin to learn right from wrong, life sends signals of things you like and dislike. As time goes on you build up as enjoyment of learning what you like and dislike. Life becomes a tool to admire the beauty of every thing you see.

A secret admirer is just that, what you see on the outside enhance what you feel on the inside.

Once you greet your secret admirer a friendship develops immediately even if you are not aware of it. It might be in the form of chills, sweaty palms, and forgetfulness when you meet, or a whole new feeling that catches you off guard. You begin to walk, talk different and your friends will notice the changes as soon as you speak to them. Yet you notice the difference in you too. That’s what makes Valentine Day such an exciting day. Your first secret admirer will last forever and become a stepping stone for any friendship or relationship that you have after you meet him or her.

Right or wrong your secret is out and the atmosphere around you let’s everyone knows that you have a secret admirer. The secret admirer knows who you are too!

Am Yours,

Happy Valentine Day